How to Make Her Cum?

How to Make a Woman Orgasm?

Many men wonder about this question, and although we try to teach this skill during personal sessions at Nymfis salons, I'll try to give you a few tips. If you try them out and add a bit of imagination, you can lead a woman to multiple orgasms, and both of you will enjoy plenty of wet pleasure. For women, I just want to add a small piece of advice: don't be afraid to tell your partner what you like, where to ease off, or where to intensify.

Longer Duration

First and foremost, it’s important to note that it generally takes longer to bring a woman to orgasm than a man. Men often reach climax within a short timeframe, usually between 3-7 minutes, while women typically require at least 15 minutes or more of stimulation. However, women can stay aroused and excited for much longer than men, so if you don’t rush, it will be easier and more enjoyable for both you and your partner.

Talking and Vulgarity

In general, men prefer to look at women and enjoy the visual aspect of sex. Women, on the other hand, appreciate words and sounds. You can also moan and express your arousal and pleasure. Tell your partner that she is sexy and exciting; try using spicier words and some dirty talk. Women like to hear and perceive your excitement and attraction towards them, so don't hesitate to communicate this.

The G-Spot

The G-spot is a very sensitive area in the vagina with a high concentration of nerve endings. This spot is the pinnacle of pleasure for women. Where to find it? While it’s not guaranteed that every woman has a G-spot, the front side of the vagina generally has more nerve endings than the backside. The G-spot is thought to provide similar satisfaction to women as prostate stimulation does for men. It is located about 3-6 cm inside the vagina, behind the urethral opening. It is best stimulated with fingers, by using a "come hither" motion.

Vaginal or Clitoral?

Stimulating the G-spot should bring women to orgasm, but it’s not the only kind. Internal G-spot stimulation leads to a vaginal orgasm, but there is also the more common clitoral orgasm. Most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, which is located at the front junction of the labia minora. If you’re unsure, it’s better to try stimulating both areas, whether with your penis or fingers. Some women may even experience wet orgasm, which involves female ejaculation or squirting, although this is less common.

Advice for Women - Don’t Overthink

Don’t think about anything, just relax; this is often your only task. Men love to see you aroused and wet, so there’s no need to worry about doing something wrong or how you look. Most partners just want to see you excited, and things like messy hair don’t matter to them. Don’t be alarmed by the sensation of needing to pee; it’s a sign of a potential squirting orgasm. Don’t overthink how wet you are or how long it’s taking; most partners are patient and happy to wait for your explosion of pleasure.

There’s No Unified Guide

Every woman is different; some have a more sensitive clitoris, others have more sensitive internal parts of the vagina, some experience squirting orgasms, and others do not. Your partner might be aroused by something completely different than other women. Men also have different sensitive erogenous zones. The best advice is to communicate, listen, and trust each other. Don’t be ashamed to share your feelings and insights; it will take you much further in your relationship and sex life.