How to Blow Like a Queen

How to give your partner better oral sex? This question is probably asked by several of us. Some women hate it, others tolerate it, and many love it. Oral sex is often a favourite among men. Let’s discuss some tips to improve your blowjob technique or introduce new ways to break the routine.

Exciting Eye Contact

Most men love it when their partner looks them in the eyes during blowjobs and takes it all in. Enjoy it and let it show, many men get devilishly aroused. Don't look bored or forced, if you are really that bothered by this technique, better not force yourself to do it. In general, don't do things that are uncomfortable for you, sex should be fun, not a worry.

Use Your Hands

Don’t forget to use your hands before or during oral sex. Play with his testicles or even explore his butt and prostate; most men find these techniques incredibly pleasurable. Don’t be afraid to apply some pressure and be a bit rougher; men are generally less sensitive in the groin area, but touch is still stimulating. You can also try gentle scratching or squeezing of the testicles. Remember, there are no limits to your imagination.

Use Your Tongue

Your tongue can be a great helper during oral sex. You can lick his testicles, run your tongue up and down, or focus on the sensitive glans. Just enjoy yourself and have fun. Don’t just stick to the penis; explore the already mentioned testicles or go even lower, depending on your comfort and your partner's preferences.

Deepthroat

This technique is not liked by many women, but some enjoy it, especially with a trusted partner. Deepthroat involves taking the penis as deep into your throat as possible, sometimes even with the testicles. It’s about sucking it to the root, which some women find enjoyable, but it might take time to get used to it, so don’t push your luck. Often, your partner might want to hold your head or hair, showing dominance, as it’s one of the few positions they fully control. Deepthroat is a polarizing technique, loved by some women and hated by others, but the truth is that the vast majority of men seek it out.

Speed and Rhythm

Change your speed and be unpredictable. Avoid monotony and routine by alternating between fast and slow paces. Your partner will love it.

Don’t Stop Before He Finishes

This is often a common mistake; it’s not okay to stop stimulating just before climax. Of course, if you don't want to swallow his cum, you don’t have to, but at least you can continue the stimulation with your hand if you stop with your mouth. It’s unpleasant for both women and men when the stimulation stops just before the climax. So, make sure to attend to your partner until the very end. Your partner will definitely appreciate it.

In conclusion, there should be no pressure in sex; it should be enjoyable for both of you. Variety and novelty are key. Don’t be afraid to introduce new ideas and explore each other's bodies.